hmm...reel and real life normally does not go together. In reel life, one can imagine having wonderful family, better standard of living, dreaming of meeting a prince charming which like you.And u be thinking so sweet of him to see what others cant see in u. Look at the serial show starring pop idol which told story of rich match with poor. mm...the guys care less of girl look, but attract by the character the moment they together. There come a point where u will feel how the guy go against family, did silly stuff to hold on to a normal looking gal. for me, after watchin a korean show, question ponder upon mi. are u sure beauty is not the first thing people will see no matter how good they are? Is there really human being which are so neutral towards people that not even a little part of their mind are subconsiously see looks as one of the critera for finding the one for them. for mi,i can believe for I feel that everyone love beautiful things... let alone beautiful people. heard a fren say "hmm... stop expecting your... to be handsome,gorgeous, blar blar blar.. take a look at mi, look is nt important. what i look for is the char of the person.." hmm... but i thinking issit people change their perception due to a lesson learn. maybe due to the serveral rejection by the beautiful.doesnt that mean,in nature,u actually not that of impartial. Jux tat u accept the fact and change the perception in finding the one. Jux feeling to prove tat are there rally such thing as pure person with no sense of percecing another party with a slight feeling due to their looks. If u ask mi,I would say. I wont believe. Dun tell mi u dun look in tat area, cos i would think it's u tat was being defeated by the "lOOK", disheartening u to look for such people with such calibre. dun convince mi tat u really sound str, good person with imartial judgement. I wont easily trust wat u say, for i am stubborn. nv have a strong idea tat hit mi back to wat i think of this issue. Senior counsel may needed to fight the point or i will always deem man kind as one with sommon instince. ---> beautiful things are what everyone are looking a ( not sure wat I'm typing jux suddenly have the urge to write some of my thought down. though not in seq)